Sue Sanders described 1890s Erath County sleeping-over etiquette:”When company stayed all night, it took some diplomacy to get all hands bedded down. But farm women had a lot of that; they needed it. Near bedtime the men would all walk out to take a last look at the stock. Then the women folks would take off their dresses and get into bed. Then the men came back. The man of the house carefully covered the fire with ashes so that there would still be coals the next morning. . . . Long before daylight, the men got up, dresses, and went out ‘to the crib,’ so the women could dress.”
Sue Sanders, Our Common Herd, New York: Garden City Publishing Co., 1939.